About the Book

"I wish I would have read this book 25 years ago. It is the best book I have ever read on the family's struggle with addiction and relapse. I've read more books than I can count and none have been this helpful. I feel I would have made much better decisions if I would have had this book".  Gayle

You've tried reasoning. Pleading. Helping. Hoping.

Setting boundaries. Loving harder.

So why hasn't it worked?

Because addiction doesn't just change the person

struggling with it. It changes everyone around them.

Families can become trapped in patterns that

unintentionally keep the cycle of addiction and relapse alive. 

The person you've been waiting on may not be the person who has to change first.